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16 best dildos for penetrative play in 2025, according to experts

Their weight and temperature-conducting properties make them ideal for those who enjoy strong, intense sensations and exploring new textures. Silicone, glass, and metal are the easiest to clean because they’re nonporous, Dr. Queen says, meaning they’re less likely to trap moisture or bacteria after use. You can usually achieve this by washing them with warm water and mild, antibacterial soap, then drying them with a soft, lint-free cloth.

There’s also a lot of toys that have the right general cylindrical shape, but don’t really look like a dick. These toys tend to be more ergonomic as the non-phallic shapes open up a lot of creative designs for both g-spot and prostate stimulation. After sifting through 600+ dildos, we can confidently say the average size is around 6 inches insertable length and 1.5 inches of max girth. This roughly corresponds to an average (or slightly above-average) penis size.

Designing the base with a more flexible material density would make it slightly easier to stick on wet surfaces like shower walls or floors. The suction cup worked reasonably well for me, but a more flexible base would make it more sturdier. Unfortunately, the firm base meant Mustang came unattached to the surface several times.

Each material is a bit different, which has its own pros and cons. Lydia Wang is the love & life editor at Women’s Health, where she writes and edits content about sexual health, love and relationships, queerness, sex tech, and astrology. She is also the co-author of the romance novel Here For The Wrong Reasons, and previously covered sex and dating for Refinery29, Elite Daily, and more. When she’s not diving deep into the latest sex trends or researching the best vibrators on the market, you can find her reading at a coffee shop or watching reality TV. Dildos can be used for solo or partnered play—but if you’re looking to stick your toy in your (or someone else’s) anus, you’ll want to make sure it has a flared base, says Finn.

Before we get into exploring the different styles and functions of dildos, it’s a really good idea to start with some basic sizing information and terminology. In this guide, we’ll take a detailed look at choosing a dildo. We’ll explain everything you need to know about dildo sizes, including length and girth options and the different types available. We’ll even share a few expert tips on choosing the right size for you. For leather products, we recommend using soap and water or using a leather cleaner. Ensure the cleaner has rubbing alcohol (isopropyl) or a similar disinfectant.

Shevibe may not have as extensive a catalog as Lovehoney, but they are more fun to browse. The style is like a comic book, with superheroes displayed in a sex-positive way. That being said, I have used the below stores for years, and they all sell high-quality products with a solid warranty, return policy, and customer support. The single row of metal bead twirls at a furious page to enhance backdoor joy and the head wiggles only slightly inside the butt. Our male reviewers report it has the perfect amount of motion to help a guy enjoy powerful ejaculations during masturbation.

Godemiche is a small private shop from Europe that makes some very pretty dildos in unique colors (more on this later). They have several shapes, but one of the most popular is the Ambit which is curved and has a bulbous head for g-spot and prostate stim. We decided to start with probably the most difficult category in this whole guide.

To use it for pegging to hit the prostate in a from-behind position , bend it with a downward curve. To use it to hit the g-spot in a face-to-face position, bend it with an upward curve. You want to keep things simple when it comes to cleaning your small dildo. Make sure to check the cleaning instructions to ensure that the cleaning process is easy, especially if you plan on sharing your toys with a partner. The only drawbacks you might experience with the Limba Flex S would be the pointed tip, which might feel sharp, and uncomfortable in certain positions, or during rougher play. FYI Realistic Dildos, the Limba Flex also comes in a medium size, so if you like the sound of bendable dildos, but want a size upgrade, check out the Fun Factory Limba Flex M.

Be the first to call dibs on our incredible sales and newest toys by entering your email below to join our mailing list. Manufacturers generally measure the width of a dildo rather than the circumference (or girth). To give you a great comparison, here is a visual of how dildo width translates to the average can of soda. All products featured on Allure are independently selected by our editors. Length is less important, as you don’t ever have to fully take the insertable length of a dildo, but you do have to be able to take the maximum width comfortably. The Stronic line by FunFactory are much more vibrator-like than the thrusting Mini Teddy.

The best squirting dildos have a bulb that attaches to the base of the cock, or it can have rubber tubing that attaches to a separate plunger or syringe style applicator. Reviewers love this dildo, but they note that the girth is “quite something”—so beginners, proceed with caution (and time and lube)! For those comfortable with substantial size, though, this is a great option. Another review reads, “If you are looking for something to make you orgasm every time, this is the one.” Say that you want to explore together and try something new. Don’t just introduce a flexible shaft mid-session or a huge, thick Doc Johnson.